How many of you would say you haven’t fallen for someone in your teenage? We all have that someone to whom we relate after listening to the term “teenage love”. We all have that untold story to say, story of our first love ?
Every teenager dreams of their first love to be the last one. But does this always happen?
The first love or love at first sight is not necessarily the true or the ultimate love. Don’t get me wrong; sometimes that first love DOES work out. SOMETIMES IT DOESN’T. This may be because we are not mature, not mature enough to know about right and wrong, not mature enough to define what love is. Always remember, nothing goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.
When your first love doesn’t work, it’s because it is your first love and not your last.Regardless of how it ended, feeling one of the most incredible emotions in the world for the first time shouldn’t be forgotten. It’s okay to hold on to those memories. Just know that while memories stay the same, people change. Accepting that is the first step to letting go. Letting go is to grow, to create room for better things to come into your life. Your insecurities that were turned on after your first love slowly start to diminish, and you start to feel like yourself again.
There is a difference between whom you like and with whom you are compatible. If you are lucky enough,you find both the qualities in that same person. If not, choose the one with whom you are compatible because liking someone is a different thing, spending rest of life with a person is totally a different story.Its not about who came first,its about who will last till the end.That one person who is ready to be with you,accept you the way you are and will never let you go.
The human heart is a magnificent thing. One minute you can feel absolutely lost, breathless and like your heart is about to split in two over heartbreak. You don’t know how you’re going to move on, or even make it through the day. But somehow, someway, you make it through the day. Soon enough, a week has passed. Then the next minute, you don’t even know how you fit the other person in your heart.
We all would have come across this question-whom do you love more? Your mom or your dad? The universal expected answer for this question remains “I love both of them, equally”. Even you would have answered this question in similar way and the answer is accepted. Proof is all here. You don’t judge. You simply love both of them ?
The well known dialogue by the king of Bollywood, Shahrukh khan from the cinema “kuch kuch hota hai” goes like-
“Hum ek baar jeete hain… ek baar marte hain… shaadi bhi ek baar hoti hai, aur pyaar…ek hi baar hota hai!”(We live once, we die once, we get married once and love, love also only occurs once.). He himself falls in love with Anjali (Kajol), although she was not his first love.
Lastly,message for all of them for whom the first love became the last one-You all are lucky. Never lose your love. Never let it go.